[Baseballl]

If it isn't meant to be then don't worry about it. You don't generally date your friend's ex or anything like that, so she must not have the same feelings for you as you do for her.

There are millions of them out there and there is one perfect for you. Don't stop looking.

I know what it is like to lose someone you love and you have to move on. You usually can't get back what is lost and you can't undo anything that has happened. You have to live with it and progress forward no matter how hard it is or how much it hurts.

[P H U O N G]

erm, have I ever been love? Erm, no.. lol =\

[Ruckus Fox]

Ofcourse I've been in love...However...At young ages, you don't want to get too involved. It's best, in your position, to just wait and let fate slide. If she goes with him--Tough luck, act quicker next time...If they break up (more than probably...Kids these days are always breaking up after a while...Seldom do you see an honest to god good pair.) then try to slide in with the right moves when she's in the depressed stage...That way...It's 10X better...But...First ask yourself--"Is this UNCONDITIONAL LOVE that I'm feeling? Or is it just puppy dog love?"

Unconditional love means you're willing to fall over and die for them, as it says...It has NO conditions, you're willing to do anything and everything. So...ask yourself first....

---Ruckus the Rogue

Edit Reply to Base's comment: Very true....There is only but a few out there that are PERFECT for you...Needless to say...They could be perfect for someone else.....You have to be on your toes, always in an offensive and defensive stance at all times. Get ready to get slammed and feel ready to counter, don't be afraid to go out there and say, "Hey." before someone else does.

[r@nG3|2s]

I agree with goto you and ur friend have been friends for wat years since you came to this school, firstly dont get hung up about a girl and secondly, its not like you were going to marry her right? Plus nex time you know to make ur intensions known

[Sproogle]

Kill them. Kill them both. That, or get over it. Tough luck, and you're gonna have a lot more, so get used to it.

[SlainThrax-]

well as some might know (kaiser among others) im cought up in a thing with my ex girlfriend who i still like. ill tell u one thing... its not freaking worth it. if u can just forget about her but as i and im sure many know. its just not that simple sometimes. do the bestbu can and if u need some advice feel free to come to me.

[Lord Sparks]

i dont know what to say. Thank u all for....helping me (not including Sproogle....your advice was just weird)
I think im over rough period for now
again i say thank u all!

for the record i do know gotenks from school. I also know bigat, dark dream, r@nG3|2s, icevaza and uh....have i forgoten anyone?

EDIT: and Ready 2 Kill now
2nd EDIT: And abbagirl!

This post has been edited by Sparks: 24 February 2005 - 10:18 PM

[Xavim2000]

It might have been love or lust. Does it matter that you can't go out with her right now? what if she broke up with you on the same day. I girl did that to me and well I know how you feel. You don't know what she is going to do with your best friend she might stay with him or go. It wont last forever you know. I give it 10 weeks.

[Re@dy_2_Ki!l]

Hey Sparks!!!!! It's me you're former best friend..... sorry you're so heartbroken. Happy Birthday

I hope it all works out Have a good week!!!!!

From you're "former" friend Re@dy_2_Ki!l

[Spikeout]

see sparks was love worth it to ruin such a great friendship like that ?

[Lord Sparks]

yes it is
im sick of his child like attitude

[r@nG3|2s]

Sparks Ready, can say 'things' at times as all of our group of friends know aye rat goto and darkie but the fact of the matter is you are being a bit of an idiot, thats wat everyone thinks. Secondly when it comes to the serious stuff ready is fine

[Lord Sparks]

well its really none of their business
no offence but its between me, abbagirl and R2K (Ready 2 Kill)

This post has been edited by Sparks: 24 February 2005 - 10:21 PM

[Gangsta KL]

Wait! No reason to give up a friend. Even if he likes the same girl you do. You still must keep his friendship because you will need him later and he will need you later. Second theres way too many girls in the world lol your bound to find one

[abbagirl]

Boys! Boys! Sparks and R2K, there's no need to start using this forum as a way of jibing each other... can't you guys work it out?

Seriously, friendship is one of the most important things in the world and it's just not worth it to lose one- especially over a girl who might not even stick around, marry you, or wish to have your Demonseeds- er, I mean kids!

Sparks, R2K and I are just friends. In fact, I'm not even sure if we're even just that. Sometimes I question it. But I am currently not dating you and you'd do well to please remember that I don't want to be put under any pressure.

I don't want to be nasty, but by constantly trying to crack on to me, you put me under enormous pressure and I feel awful when I know that it's not right to respond to that, which in turn is pushing me away.

I'm not saying we don't have a chance- we have a great chance, but now is just too wrong. If we had a relationship and it were spoiled because it came along too early, it would be a shame as there is great potential here, isn't there?

This post has been edited by abbagirl: 24 February 2005 - 06:30 AM