[Dragonman]

im dont need help! i just need answers! ive told everyone i can think of, besides parents, bout this and they say i should get a straight jacket and stay in a padded room! GOD I AM NOT CRAZY! I AM SANE! I just need..... a reason.

Reason: you've got a great future ahead of you. As you get older, your grades get more and important, and if you're getting all A's that's very good and you should keep it up, you'll be happy you did in later school years.

And with a new little brother you'll have another person to love in your life. Think about the bond you can form with a new little brother. Aim to be a good big brother for the little guy starting his life instead of ending yours, suicide should never be an option.

[Res]

Everyone here has got it. Now, I'm telling you right here, right now, don't do it.

Now pay attention.

All these people here that have posted, telling you not to.. You know why they did? Because you mean something to them. (Myself included.) I may not know you as much as I'd like to, but I know, without you, this place wouldn't be the same right now.

You've got a brother on the way? Good. Wait 'till he gets here, and you be the one that he wants to be like when he grows up. If you commit suicide, what does he have to think? He'll be without a brother he could have had.

Another thing. If you kill yourself, just like others have said, it won't make anything better. Not how you feel, not if you're hurting or anything right now, not if you're sad.
The answer to those things? Time.

Time will heal you, man. Plus, with all the people here behind you, there's a way to go if you're feeling bad. Just come to just about any one of us, and we'll do our best to see that you're feeling better.

Hurting? Give it a while, and cry. Crying is just like opening a pressure valve and letting everything go. Tell some friends (that will understand, like myself) about how you're feeling, see if they can help.

Sad? Don't be. There are reasons to be happy. Just look past any reason to be sad and keep smilin'. When you're sad, you usually dwell on the negative things. And that'll keep you sad, for a long time. Look to the high side of things.

Dude, I'm not asking, I'm telling you. Don't. Things'll get better, you just have to allow them to.

Kaiz.

[Ruckus Fox]

Well...If you're saying "Nothing's worth it." Why did you create this thread? Obviously you have something worth living for, and you want help.

If you succumb to suicide, you are weak. You don't want to be weak, do you?

Don't succumb to suicide, stay alive, keep on living. Meet a pretty girl, marry her, get laid, have lots of kids. You don't need an extremely extravagant reason to live, just go out and do it.

If people bug you, be an optimist....They hate that. ;P

---Ruckus the Rogue

[Bigfoot]

snowy let me to tell you something you were the first person that ever answered me when i posted something. For that i am very grateful. believe ive felt how you feel right now many times. like mobster said if christian pray to god. tell him about your feelings i kno it might sound stupid but god will help you in desperate times. what ever you odnt plz dont kill yourself your a real friend to many people. Think of all the people you would hurt. i dont even really know you in real life, and if you comited suicide id probly cry. if this helped you out let me know.snowy your a great guy in the end you'll do the right thing i believe in you. i have nothing more to say.

[Serenarocks]

Go to a help center or call a Kids Help Line number. Talk to others about what you are feeling, chances are, they will understand a few emotions you are going through. Tell your parents how you feel, (see my extra at the bottom ok?) and if they dont care about your feelings, then tell them you wont talk to them for a while, sort of shun them for a few hours or days (not forever notice!) and when you feel ready to tell them about your plan (if you still have one, which I hope not...) and they WILL care, and may talk to you about it. Dont give up hope. Talk to very close friends who you can trust about your feelings. And, please be careful, dont do anything to yourself, please. You can get through this.




Dont say the word "suicide" or imply that you would kill yourself. Dont say anything about it to anyone, unless it is really serious and you will do it. But, if you are going to, tell someone, a parent or friend, and I sincerely hope it doesnt come to that. Also, stay calm when you are talking about it, dont yell or fight or anything.

I hope you feel better,
Serena

[Raktor]

hold a knife, usually calms me down. think really hard youre gonna put that knife in your arm and you know youre unable to do it.

Personally, I think that's a bit much...

Actually, I do what Alex does. Makes me wonder how I could've ever done it, and makes me know that I should never do it again.

[CongressJon]

And another reason for you: Because this is it. You may have second chances in life, but when it comes to this sort of thing, there are no second chances. Embrace life. No matter how bad it is, dangit, you're alive. Assume that there is no heaven. That there is no reincarnation. This is your one chance to make a difference. Are you going to do it by ending this great gift that's been given to you?

[Res]

Listen to Hyper. He's full of "the correctful" goodness.

Yes. Assume that there's nothing else. Why end it here when you have the rest of your life ahead of you?

[Hax the Cook]

A reason?
Because people care about you. Your parents, freinds, relatives, us, me.
You make us all feel good. Imagine what would happen if you dissapeared. Now think of all the good time you can spend with the people you know. Think, and you'll feel better.

And sleep. Sleep always helps.

[Jake]

look man i realized that your depressed and maybe angry, but please dont do it....

if its mainly anger... work out... take up wrestling or boxing or even martial arts, football helps too (nocking the crap out of people releaves a loty of stress)

,take up guns(hobbywise) & be a gun nut, go to the range & fire away. if u live in the country & already are a gunnut blow the s**t out a piece of fruit with a 12 gauge. punch things... pillows matresses punching bags.

if its mainly depression take up a hobby skateboarding, guitars, drums,(music in general), be in a band the type of garage band that is sorta good but pisses off parents.

if thats not your thing go ride bikes, either riding or doin tricks.

if thats still not wat u like try to learn how to make games, flash movies, sigs avvys, that sort of thing. from wat i understand techie ppl make a sh*t load of money (to me at least).

trust me your little brother would be really sad & depressed if he knew that u killed yourself. i think my brother would be, he's goin to be born tonight or tomorrow... theyre inducing my mom tonight... maybe already i dont know.. im at my dads so i have no clue.

ive felt depressed too if its a bunch of @$$holes pushin you around dont be afraid to stand up 4 yourself. personally i kno how to drop ppl in 1 hit(not the groin).

actually... lol there was this 1 time when my dryer broke (i lives in aparptments then & was about 12 & in the 7th grade) & was walkin to the washers & dryers. a bunch of kids (5th or 6th graders i think... they were about 8in shorter than me & looked like sticks)were shouting "look! whats that fag*** doin around here!" & "its bobby!" but i didn't know that they were adressing me b/c my name is Jacob & im not a homo so i kept on.
they were a sorta far from me so i didn't hear them.... i was almost finished puttin my clothes and they came in. and stood behind me and they started calling me "bobby" & "fa****" so i got their point that they thought i was bobby. so i turned around and said "what the fu**? who r u guys?" and they gave me their routine & i said "i dont know who bobby is but nobody calls me a fag***" and on fa**** i punched the one in front of me in the forehead as hard as i could he fell on the washer and they all ran away. seriously man... dont take sh** of nobody

as they said in cool runnings

what do you see in yourself?.....

I see pride!
I see power!
I see a bad mutha f**ka that dont take sh** offa nobody!

edit: seriously man if u need to talk pm me or talk to me on aim, msn, or yahoo. im jake4d1 in all of them.

This post has been edited by Sephiroth4d1: 18 April 2005 - 04:13 AM

[Bodom]

Why go on a forum and ask strangers who you dont know (Well you may know them, but they dont affect your real daily life) answers on why you shouldnt kill yourself, shouldnt you ask people it would really affect?

And to say if i havent posted here ive killed myself just implies your seeking for people to be sorry, sorry if i "seem" harsh but ive seen tons of this stuff on the internet.

[JGJTan]

Life is the best thing in the world someone can be given. You only have one shot at it and it would be a terrible mistake to waste away something so precious... To go away from ones troubles in life is to bestow it upon the spirits of others...

To put your worries aside, look at one good thing which happens daily and always look forward to that. It gets you through the week and then you'll soon forget about your problems and you'll be back to your cheerful self.

[Bigfoot]

i agree with JGJTan 100%. you only have one chance at life if you were to kill yourself now there's no way to undo it

[Bashae]

Meh... Life's a bi ch... Depression isn't a pretty thing but killing yourself won't do any good... Find a way to siphon out your depression, like all the good ideas Seph mentioned.

[Mobster101]

By the simple fact that you haven't killed yourself yet, it tells me you have somthing to live for. If not you would have done it by now. I mean, we have all posted here, and we don't even know you. All we now is crazy snowy and yet we still stand behind you and tell you not to do this. Where else will you finds friends like that? Certinely not if your dead. Just don't do it, depression can suck. But you must overcome it. If you don't well youur no better then any crook. Because you STEAL your own life away.....