[CongressJon]

Okay, this has happened before... But, well, I'm in a situation involving romance, and I'm totally clueless. You could just deduce that it's about me from that.

Aaaanyway... There's a girl I like. I'll just call her G. (Wow, how original.) Anyway, ever since about June, we've both admitted to each other that we have feelings for each other, and it's pretty much common knowledge that we like each other.

Now, about two or so of my friends have been pestering me to ask her out for about 2-3 months now. And, man are they relentless. One of them, pretty much every time I see her, "ASK HER OUT!!!!". V_V Kind of embarressing, to a certain degree.

Anyways, the thing is, I sort of do want to ask her out. I mean, I know as a fact that I really like her. Problem, though, is that I'm really, really clueless. I'd like to ask her out... But it just doesn't feel right. I don't understand what it really means to ask someone out, or even the concept of dating in general.

I've been flailing around for a few weeks, even resorting to ask one of my friends (Of the female group. >.< Sad.) for help. Not really working. So, pathetic as usual, I ask for help from my great friends at SeeD.

[SlainThrax-]

well from what i can tell u need advice on how to ask her out. safe bet in my opinion is to ask her to a movie. basicly just say "hey G(rofl) you wana go to a movie sometime?" and there you go... just go from there its really alot easier once you break te ice.

[Res]

The concept of dating, in my view is, of course, a relationship with that person. To hopefully draw you closer together as you get older.

First, I'd have to know "What doesn't feel right" about it for more information to give you.

[Jake]

well... its easier to give advice in person when im not hurrying but here goes.
for whatever reason you are talking about the new.... doom movie. she aparrently likes the doom movie too.

say "hey {wassap G (srry couldn't resist)} wanna go see doom tomorrow?" or whatever day you want

[CongressJon]

First, I'd have to know "What doesn't feel right" about it for more information to give you. 

When I say that... I mean it doesn't feel right to ask someone out without really understanding what you're doing.

[Res]

Well, that helps alot. Thanks. I'll do my best here..

You like spending time around her? You're her friend apparently, but do you feel as if you could take that to the next level? E.G. adding "girl" in front of "friend". If so, that's all you need to ask yourself. However, if you do choose to start a relationship with her, be sure you're friendship is on good terms. So if by some chance it doesn't work out, you want to be able to remain her friend. Here's something you could say. Feel free to alter.

Tell her you like spending time with her, and she's the best friend that is a girl you have. Since it's common knowledge you like her, and she likes you, it could seem only natural that you may want to start a relationship. Start dating, get to know her a bit more.

If you do start something, DON'T go too fast. Keep a steady pace with her, and good luck with her. If you need clarification on anything, ask.

[Spikeout]

Do what you think is "Hyperfried"

If you want to then you would, if you don't want to then don't give in to pressure.

[Aaron]

I've felt the exact same way before. In fact, I feel that way now actually . I know it's so hard to do something like that, but just go for it. You only have one life to live, so just try it. Make sure it's in a place where you two are somewhat alone, too. Good luck Hyper .

[Slay Mantus]

wow that spunds like me only i dont kno if she likes me but at least i got advice 2 and good luck hyperfried. dont change wat u do around her cuz she liked u because of that

[r@nG3|2s]

well, if you both have feeling for each other, you need to go out an say it. The only thing is let her talk about herself unless she asks stuff abuot you, usually they talk about themselves.

Ask her, Hey G (I'm not tryingto make a pun out of it like anyone else lol) Do you want to do soemthing together, say have lunch of go to the movies. Also, you have to ask her what she wnts to do, what movie or what restaurant, but make sure it's within your wallet limit, (money). Usually the guy pays for the first date and stuff. If something is too expensive for you just say sorry i cant do that, is there anything else? If she really likes you, you should get teh chance

So now! my hyper G (lol) Go and ask her out.

It's true once you break the ice by asking her first, you will find it easier to talk to her.

Good luck

[Pendragon205]

well, i just found out that the easiest thing to do is act normal, and be brief when making plans. just find a common ground, and talk about that, then find something to do that you both like. in my case this weekend it was video games and laser tag. yes, you heard me. a girl that likes laser tag and video games. Anyway, just act normal and remember, dont stab her or anything

[CongressJon]

The problem is that we're both fairly uncomfortable about bringing up the subject... V_V

[Pendragon205]

i know! i can help! you're both online as i speak, yes?
to the chatbox! (not seed chatbox. haha, other people)

This post has been edited by Pendragon205: 26 October 2005 - 02:02 AM

[Hax the Cook]

Dude, you broke the little 'does she like me? should I bother?' barrier! Dude, If I knew a girl liked me and I liked her back, I wouldn't gesitate to ask her out. Seriously, go for it.

[asyluman]

Basically you've got a wrost case scenario riiight here:



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