[Nalfein Magicka]

Ok whatever,the point is TELL YOUR PARENT'S AND YOUR GIRLFRIEND'S PARENTS!

[Neraphym]

Thanks for showing some maturity there. You shouldn't take something like this lightly; it's quite a serious situation. My advise would be to make 100% sure that she's knocked up, then confront your parents. I've had a few scares like this myself, and it's best to be positive before you submit yourself to your parents' wrath.

[Nalfein Magicka]

Are you positively sure your girlfriend is pregnet? I would get a job(nvm if you have one already),Also save up money.

[Skyone]

Money is not the problem here, it's how Slain should explain the situation.

[Nalfein Magicka]

Ya your right...........after this is thurolly(bad spelling) we should evaluate this situation and make a choice.

[SlainThrax-]

i have a job. but i also have school. so i cant work much. i gues smy parents wouldnt kick me out im just really worried about her parents... they are VERY strict.

[Nalfein Magicka]

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmm i dunno dude

[fuh que 2]

kashi u hear lol i joined

[Nalfein Magicka]

Sorry tis isn't the right forum dude this is a serious topic not ment for spam.

[SlainThrax-]

this pretty much sucks and im not sure at all what im guna do.

[Nalfein Magicka]

Sorry to hear this dude.............

[Master Of Stuff_NA]

i have a job. but i also have school. so i cant work much. i gues smy parents wouldnt kick me out im just really worried about her parents... they are VERY strict.

I want to say that no parent would be so strict that they would forsake their child...

Decisions were made, actions will have to be taken.

Prepare for the worst and hope for the best.

[Red Sentinel]

Is it too late for abortion?

[CongressJon]

Woah... ah, tough situation there. Being a 14 year old who's never had a girlfriend, I'm probably not the best person to consult. However...

First - how do you feel about this girl right now? Obviously, being 15 to your 17, you're not at the point where you can just say, "Fine, we like each other enough, get married and everything's fine." Still, if you're serious enough about this girl, having both of you knowing that you're in this one for each other all the way is a big help. However, it's that's not the case, and you both are probably splitting up... well, that's a lot tougher.

At any rate, one thing I can say for sure - the longer it's a secret, the worse it's going to be for you, regardless of who you tell. In telling your own parents, my guess is, there are going to be extremely, extremely angry, dissapointed, whatever. I don't know your parents, but I'd guess that's what your average parent would be. Still, if you can get the info to them quickly... it at least tells them that you're trustworthy to the point where you'd tell them something as serious as that. The longer you keep it from them, the less responsible you seem.

No matter what happens, the way I see it, and I hate to say this, but it's a bad outcome. But I wouldn't make things worse by keeping it between you two for a while. I would tell them, and try to deal with it. That's just an early teen's opinion.

Oh, and abortion is your friend here. Big time.

[Res]

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Wow. Well, this is new. I can't really say I have much advice on this. I usually go through stuff before I tend to give advice, but I'll do what I can.

The most you can do at this point is just tell your parents "Look. I {expletive ninja'd by Cspace}ed up. I'm sorry. I'll do what I can to make it right." Which is what you should do. If you can pull yourself out of the kink and get things set straight amongst job, school, and her, you should be set. Just don't be one of those guys who leave immediately afterwards and doesn't help at all. There's few things on my list of bad things to do.

IF her parents are tough enough to kick her out of the house for this, it's your job to take her in and help her. That's what this is now, m8. A team effort. You'll need both of you to get this thing turned out right.

That's the most I can really say. I do wish you the best of luck getting around to setting things right.
God bless.

Edit: And for the record, as much as I LOATHE to admit it, abortion may be an option. I really, really REALLY hate saying that. But the fact of the matter is, it's the truth.