[Dart060]

I'm sorry for you Silver, I understand what you're going through.

Meh, I'll never be occupied by girls until about year 12 as I attend an all boys college (what luck...), I also have had some crap throughout schooling but I take it on the chin, I'm passive angry as-well, though I find that a bad thing and try taking out my anger, see if you're passive angry you just take crap on and on until one day you shoot them.

pre-occupy myself with computer games, martial arts, meditating, and plays. That way, I'm far too busy for a girl friend.

^Ditto, I'm already isolated from girls so I just occupy myself with past-times, taw-kwon-do, computer games and magazines.

I don't really have anything to say about first rejections, as, I AM NOT BEING ALL BIGHEADED, the few times i asked someone out i never got rejected, but most of the time its they ask me out or i turn them down... so i dont have much experience on what to do there..

^
I don't understand why you all are so well... high strung when you get rejected, I just get it out of my system and get on with life.

Silver hang in there buddy, everyone's here to support you and to talk, don't let those things and other people bring you down with them, if you ever need help just ask.

[skenasis]

jeez, silver, you poor thing. i feel for you.

and y'know people, not all females are as bad as you all seem to think. sure, there are some nasty ladies out there, but have a look, and youll find that there are females who have a heart. not one of ice, mind. a real one.

ive had some tough times too in my life. when i go through one, and i start to think stuff like that, all i have to do is think of the good things in life. i think that everyone has at least one calling that, no matter what they get put against, can fall back on, and come back ready for more. i was lucky and found my calling early in my life. for me, that thing is the company of a cat. mostly my own cat, kira. shes the friendliest little thing youll ever meet. *points to avvy* shes the one on the right. but its not about me, its about silver.

silver, mate, try to find your calling. i know, i sound like a nutcase, but, i believe it will help. you calling could be a particular animal, like mine, playing a particular video game, or something like that. it could even be some kind of physical or passive activity, like listening to a particular song, or playing some kind of sport.
sorry if i freak people out for saying all that, but its just what i believe.

and silver. i know we dont even know each other, but if you want a shoulder to cry on (however stuffed up it may be), or just someone to lend an ear, you can always talk to me. ill listen.

[Bodom]

I'm sorry for you Silver, I understand what you're going through.

Meh, I'll never be occupied by girls until about year 12 as I attend an all boys college (what luck...), I also have had some crap throughout schooling but I take it on the chin, I'm passive angry as-well, though I find that a bad thing and try taking out my anger, see if you're passive angry you just take crap on and on until one day you shoot them.

pre-occupy myself with computer games, martial arts, meditating, and plays. That way, I'm far too busy for a girl friend.

^Ditto, I'm already isolated from girls so I just occupy myself with past-times, taw-kwon-do, computer games and magazines.

I don't really have anything to say about first rejections, as, I AM NOT BEING ALL BIGHEADED, the few times i asked someone out i never got rejected, but most of the time its they ask me out or i turn them down... so i dont have much experience on what to do there..

^
I don't understand why you all are so well... high strung when you get rejected, I just get it out of my system and get on with life.

Silver hang in there buddy, everyone's here to support you and to talk, don't let those things and other people bring you down with them, if you ever need help just ask.

What are you on about? where did i say im high strung?

[Dragonman]

Silver, please remember to not be what they you are or are telling you are. They can't control your life. Just don't react to what they say and ignore anyone that acts mean towards you (don't give them a reason to, also ). The people in your school aren't the only people in the whole entire world. Just stick with people you like and who like you and stick with school so that you can lead a nice smooth life, meet new people, and whatever else you wanna do.

I guess I'd have to relate this to running. No matter how bad the cramp gets, just keep on running. And believe me, those cramps get reaally bad.

[Raktor]

Actually, I'd relate it to a boot.....

[Serenarocks]

Omg, Spencer. You dont know how much I know what your talking about. As some of you know, I have very short hair. I am a bit short for my age. I...um...Was a late bloomer...Yah, well anyways, I was always teased and made fun of by other kids from my school, and they even started a web site on how much they thought I was gaie. Well, as you guys should no, I am not (not that there's anything wrong with it,) and I was very upset. I never got to the stage of contemplating suicide, but friends have. Though none of them actually have. It was very hard for me until I got into about grade 9. It all changed. One of the kids at my school got arrested for selling drugs. He was one of those kids that were popular and picked on me. He was scentanced to something or another, and the popular kids backed off, now knowing that it was the teachers who had reported it, and they could again for harassment.
I still have problems at school, but its not as bad as before.

Spencer, there are many people here who care about you. Dont ever, EVER think about that stuff again . You will get through it, I swear.


Plus, girls arent that bad. Some of us can be hell, but not tha majority i think...At least in my school. I am not evil Jarik

This post has been edited by pixie grrl: 21 October 2004 - 03:14 AM

[ticktockclok]

Girls rock!

And its funny when you suck at dancing!

[Ferret Overlord]

But it's usually us guys that suck...

Then again, it is funny to step on their toes!

[SlainThrax-]

this topic isnt about you jokeing around...(directed at FO and crazed nutter)

[Raktor]

So it's about us just giving sympathy to you? How about I create a topic, 'Sympathy for Bigbro!'. Much better title, since it explains what you're trying to acomplish, and it doesn't have cussing

[Red Sentinel]

omg, silver, i'll be here if you need me. as for me, whenever i try to talk to a girl, they allways talk about something i dont wanna talk bout, or some stupid dumb kid (look at my topic for more) hits me or bothers me, but m8, i'm here for you if you need me





Fersk

[Kowboy]

This stuff is nothing new to me; I used to get harrassed daily in school. Until, one day, I finally got into a fight with one of the kids who harrassed me, I think I would have beat him to death--quite literally--if his friend had'nt stepped in and knock me over. It's been 3 years, and I have grown well over 9 inches to my current state, 5' 11" and I feel some payback coming on.

As far as attempted suicide goes, nothing new to me. No, I haven't tried it, but I have sure been sad enough to consider it, as soon as it I though "suicide" I thought "my future, my family, and my friends." I wouldn't have any of them if I commited suicide--my future is the most important thing to me (well, as far as my life goes, I value my friends and family over that, of course.) Maybe not suicide, but currently I am debating on wether of going out and getting drunk, just to relieve some stress. The only thing that keeps me from doing this is me being so mature, not wanting to get caught, and if I did get caught (with the law I mean) it would completely jeopardize and ruin my future, since my dream job is for the government (USAFA, then USAF to serve, then commercial airline pilot.)

The cop thing. My experience wasn't that drastic, but it still was pointless and made me mad. Someone actually called the cops on me for riding my bike on a sidewalk where you weren't supposed to, although no sign was posted it was "an understood agreement when I stepped onto that stores property." I just got a warning for trespassing, hehe.


Its up to you to keep yourself in line and care about yourself, not anybody elses job.


Most of these things you have been through are average in this day and age, so don't go too crazy on me.

[Serenarocks]

We're all there for ya buddy. Also, bigbro, anything suicidal is not really sympathy. It's helping and saving somebody's life.

[Kowboy]

We're all there for ya buddy. Also, bigbro, anything suicidal is not really sympathy. It's helping and saving somebody's life.

Actually, that is true. Through-out this topic Bigbro has been indirectly flaming, do you think you could stop that please?

[Star Jedi]

So it's about us just giving sympathy to you? How about I create a topic, 'Sympathy for Bigbro!'. Much better title, since it explains what you're trying to acomplish, and it doesn't have cussing

Bigbro, I am getting annoyed myself that you are indirectly flaming him. Silver has kept his cool throughout this topic... Please stop SeeD is here to help eachother out, just stay out of this topic if it annoys you so much.

Anywho..