CurvedSpace Forums: Crushes, IN MIDDLE SCHOOL... - CurvedSpace Forums

Hmmmm,well dude.First off yea I give kids your age swirlies(No offense intended).Second If you like a girl yea tell her.But don't date them.Vash made it clear.And he made alot of sense.Girls that age are lets say emotional.And drama doesn't help.I didn't get a Girlfriend around that age,you know why?Because I said "Why the hell would I get A girlfriend,i'm just eleven i'm not sixteen or something".And I still do laugh at people my age who are holding hands.But anyway.Be honest,and wear a cup.Because like I said they are emotional.And their main traget if they are pissed,is your pants.

-kashi

Really, whereabouts? And yeah, I needed to ask Darkness what a middle school was. He wasn't very helpful.



I am really at a loss to what the connection is between cups and honesty is.



A piece of advice, don't scan Tanny's posts. I neglected to see the rest of that last sentence, picking up only the words 'fun' and 'yourself'. >.<

How old were you at the time?



*cough*

You shouldn't have expected much more from me. You should know that's how I generally am

Of course.

Well Yer im a Vic thats all im saying. Darkness isnt that helpful, he said he would try to make me a better sig the next day and that was 4 days ago! lol not that i really care how long he takes.

AS for this crush thing im going into my last year of High School and ive had a crush on a different chick every year and at the end of this year i was interested in 2 girls and 2 different girls liked me so yer i cant choose and probably wont


I think thats two bits of advice be honest and protect your nice bits

He's in -sixth grade-. o.o;

ok so maybe not nice bits. but still its to protect private parts!

I lol'd at that. Really hard.

Anyways, back to the subject of your girl. I strongly recommend against it unless you both are fully certain you wish to start a relationship. And that's not something you can easily find out by not speaking to her a lot. My advice is, if you're going to try to date someone, at least have yourself as "Good friend" status to them before you make any kind of moves.

Me in particular, I was at "Best Friend" status, so it helped my situation a lot. Still does, to this day. >.>

I certainly hope the latter sentence there was in reference to the former sentence.

Ah...Middle School...the time of my life when I found out I was gay. ^-^ Yes...such fond and horrible times...such as finding that one stall with a giant dookie in it and screaming "OMG! SOMEBODY BLASTED {expletive antidisestablishmentarianized by Cspace}!!!!" right as a teacher walked into the restroom. Ah...he was so confused that I got off scotch free. Or when that one kid no one liked got beat up by a door...yes. Wonderful times.

I must warn you. Women are impossible to understand, so save yourself the trouble and don't try.

If you're wrong, admit it. If you're right, shut up.

And for the love of god, don't take this relationship into depth. You probably won't marry each other, and it's not worth slitting your wrists over, 'kay? =P Now that -that- is all aside, I can help you.

You might be wondering-- "Okay, Ruckus. You're a femboi fox, what the hell do you know about women?" Plenty. You mentioned that she asks you questions? That means she's interested in you. That doesn't me she's wanting a date, it means she wants to know what's going on in your life so she can relate, and maybe -that- will spark a relationship. It's a tactic women use, I don't like it at all. If you wish to date at this age, get used to the "100 questions" game.

Tall women are great for flattering. For some reason, women just don't like to be short. I'm sorta short for my class, I like it! Anyway. If she looks radient, don't hold it in, tell her. I casually tell my female friends how they look. It's really not that hard after you do it a few times, but don't be bland. Use different words and expressions each time or else they'll think you're just saying that to get them to smile.

Women -love- to be noticed! If she's wearing some pretty earrings, tell her. If her hair is different today, mention it. They style their hair and paint their nails not because they think they're pretty, but because they want -other people- to think they're pretty. If you notice those things, it'll mean the world to her.

You like magic, eh? Using your own talents is a great way to win the affection of another, especially women. As it was stated in some movie that the name escapes me. "I'll never get a girlfriend. All girls want is guys with skills!...Painting skills...Computer Hacking skills...all they want is skills!" Not quite -all- that they want, but it certainly helps. Find out what makes you unique, harness it, mold it, make it your own, and power and will may come with it.

If you're horribly charismatic like myself (and so modest too! ) then BSing works wonders too...but once again, be aware that this only works when you don't get caught. Oi vei. Expand your vocabulary and do a little more than sports. Girls tend to like guys that aren't always busy with sweaty nasty sports. One or two is fine, but don't fill your schedule with sports and then intend to get a girlfriend.

Be sure to keep a lot of cash on hand too. In highschool, dating gets expensive, and you'll need a part time job to hold it up. If you're like me and enjoy expensive sports like Paintball, you can't stand to have a girlfriend. So that's why I have a boyfriend. =P Find ground in common and you'll do just fine.

Be careful about the dames though...my Middle School crush happened to turn out to be a psychopathic maniac self-mutilator. God I dumped her so fast...

I never got into my first real relationship till last year. And I in all honesty don't know what grades are for what age. But don't just go ask her out like I know a lot of people do in Middle School. You really have to get to know the girl. Unless of course you leave it for too long, become great friends and make things awkward >.<. Bad experiences like that.

Just don't rush in, if you're not sure, talk to her best friend. She'll know what she will say.

When did computer hacking become sexy



btw 6th grade means 11-12 yrs old

Since my neighbor and I jumped on the band wagon! =P Nah...not anymore these days.

You're telling this kid to get a girl to like him with the advice of Napoleon Dynamite?

You mis-interpret. I told him to find his own uniqueness. Harness it, mold it, and make it his own. Once you personalize your own abilities, you will never be looked down upon ever again. You can crush mountains into valleys and build them back up again if you so choose.