[Zach The Mindfreak]

Well I am a little embarrased to post this on public forums but, I recently just entered middle school (Yes, I am young.) and I now have a crush. I have never had a date, have only had one crush before, and I never worked on the previous one. But this new one I just can't get off my mind.

What I need is sort of advice. I have a crush on a girl (Who's actually quite tall to mention..) and I have had a small thought that she likes me. She occasionally asks me random questions, like at the start of the year she asked "Do you know sign language?" and she often just says some normal stuff. She is sort of entertained by some magic tricks that I have been doing. (Yes, I have obtained a hobby for magic.) There are some times that she stares at me for a second or two, but there's no other evidence that she likes me or not.

So what kind of advice would you give for a 6th grader like me? I'm rather shy, don't know much about what girls like, and I don't know how to REALLY impress her.

So what experiences have you had that might help me?

[!!! g() g() g() to hell !!!]

lol k just because a girl asks u if u no sighn language or if she talks to u does not mean she likes u happens alot to me they want to be freinds just be freinds with her and when u see she trust u more then just maybe ask her out maybe go watch a movie with her or go for a walk at a park or sumtin

[Nazē.]

Just work on your friendship with her. Even if something else comes from it, it's always a good idea to base things on a good, solid friendship.

I wouldn't worry much about the whole dating her thing if I were you. Relationships are way riskier than normal friendships anyway. 'Specially for young peoples.

So basically, be friends, don't rush it... y'know.

Hope that helps.

[ticktockclok]

You're in 6th grade. Whenever I see kids that little holding hands or that sort of thing, I start laughing. Its alright to like someone, but there's no need for a boyfriend/girlfriend kind of thing.

Also, good for you. You can do magic. But pulling a rabbit out of your hat isn't going to make anyone like you. Its not you they like, its the tricks. Run out of tricks, screw up, or if they figure they out, they will leave.

Last, people stare at each other. Its true. It doesn't mean {expletive hax0rd by Cspace}. Sometimes they stare at each other longer. Sometimes they call that love. Sometimes they call it a staring contest.......

[Cspace]

In my efforts to make the purpose of the Cafeteria known, I'm moving appropriate threads to General Discussion.

No worries

[Jake]

Honestly, at that age i'm not even sure its worth it. (no offence) But alot of times, Girls that age are a bit... clingy in a creepy way. (Ie. writing I <3 *your name* over and over constantly is one small example)

[Nuu™™]

Also, good for you. You can do magic. But pulling a rabbit out of your hat isn't going to make anyone like you.

I will. ^.^

And the reason she could possibly be staring at you is because she is part of a secret society founded with the intent on protecting you until you discover your supernatural powers. It is possible.

[Phalanx]

wat the hell is middle school. im from Australia and we have primary school and high school. is it like the middle ground or something (ie. grade 5 to year 8) once i know that then ill comment on the topic

[x..]

Just work on your friendship with her. Even if something else comes from it, it's always a good idea to base things on a good, solid friendship.

I wouldn't worry much about the whole dating her thing if I were you. Relationships are way riskier than normal friendships anyway. 'Specially for young peoples.

So basically, be friends, don't rush it... y'know.

Hope that helps.

Yeah. I agree.

Zach: Your about the same age as me o.o

[Darkness]

I'd say that it doesn't even really matter anyway. Sure, be friends with her, but do you even think that it'll really mean anything if you're dating her at this age? No, it probably won't. I agree with Ticktock, I laugh too when I see people your age holding hands or saying they're dating. Of course, I laugh when I see people my age doing that, so hey.. But still. It's fine to have a crush on someone, but there's no need to try to continue into a datingish relationship anyway

[Traver]

Forget about it. Girls that age will just pretend they care and then be on their way when they're bored of the whole thing, anyway.

[Res]

Girls that age are a bit... clingy in a creepy way. (Ie. writing I <3 *your name* over and over constantly is one small example)

Aww.. I think that's cute. ^______^

Don't try for a relationship, though. Not where you are right now. This may seem a bit harsh, but the general populace of that age group isn't mature enough to handle a real type of dating relationship. It'll all end in tears, enemies, mobs, or death. And that's never good.

[JGJTan]

... I don't think I'll give advice then, since I have a "reputation" and it goes against what other people say.

Just... enjoy yourself and have fun.

[Daryl C]

... I don't think I'll give advice then, since I have a "reputation" and it goes against what other people say.

Just... enjoy yourself and have fun.

Nina?

[JGJTan]

Of course not.

I went out with someone in "Grade 6"... and maybe previous grades...

All you need to do is have fun and be yourself.